Unschooling: Our October 2014 adventures

October was awesome. Art. Traveling. Animals. Fun. Movies. Deep conversations. Forensics. Oh, and I got a promotion at work. Pretty good stuff; here’s a look at the highlights!

Ashar in the corn maze!

Ashar in the corn maze!

(If this is your first time catching our month-in-review posts, welcome! Check out our archive of previous wrapups here for some more info on why we take this approach to documenting some of our unschooling learning adventures.)

Books

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  • The Matrix and Philosophy. Ashar is on the next-to-last chapter of this super-dense book, and has really had some amazing conversations as a result. But she is so devoted to finishing it that she hasn’t wanted to read much else, which is totally fine by me!
  • National Geographic. The November issue has a feature on “real zombies,” animals that take over their hosts, and Ashar loved it.
A "garden-variety" selfie in the butterfly garden at Reptiland.

A “garden-variety” selfie in the butterfly garden at Reptiland.

Movies and TV

Ashar laughing as a dinosaur at Reptiland sprayed her with water.

Ashar laughing as a dinosaur at Reptiland sprayed her with water.

Video games

Ashar made these candy acorns for my mom's church's bake sale.

Ashar made these candy acorns for my mom’s church’s bake sale.

Videos

Places and projects

    Ashar with a pirate ship at the Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire

    Ashar with a pirate ship at the Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire

  • Our Words of the Day project – Ashar’s still creating a new word-of-the-day poster for our fridge on everything from the kingfisher to the ouroboros to the FBI
  • Clyde Peeling’s Reptiland, Ashar’s second trip but my first
  • Revisiting our timeline – We cleared it off and have started over with everything from the birth of Hitler to dates of various wars and more
  • Forensics class at York College – Ashar signed up for a community education class on forensics, met a police detective, staffers from the District Attorney’s office, the deputy coroner and more
  • Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire
  • Dover Band Show – This is the marching band show held for local non-competition bands at my alma mater, and it was amazing
  • DreamWrights production of The Hobbit musical – We had several friends in this show and super-much enjoyed seeing it and them
  • Corn maze at Flinchbaugh’s Orchards (Chris took Ashar to this, and they also bought some fall decorations for our yard)
  • A Haunted Bookshop Halloween at The York Emporium, our local favorite used-bookhouse and what I think might become a Halloween tradition for us
Ashar decided she wanted to dress up as a "gangster bandit," and so she did. And we hung out at our favorite bookstore with friends. Very cool.

Ashar decided she wanted to dress up as a “gangster bandit,” and so she did. And we hung out at our favorite bookstore with friends. Very cool.

Odds and ends of stuff we’ve talked about/read/geeked out over

    Unrelated to movies, Ashar and Chris being scared - uh, not really - by a Reptiland dino.

    Ashar and Chris being scared – uh, not really – by a Reptiland dino.

  • “I am a Stalwart of the Stalwarts and Arthur is president” and more about the assassination of James Garfield by Charles Guiteau.
  • What the difference is between a personal reference and a professional one.
  • The Google Made With Code project, where Ashar made a Yeti dance, a layered eye and more.
  • How to (try to) salvage an iPod Touch that’s been through the wash, and how to deal with it when you can’t. (Ugh.)
  • Making candy “acorns” out of Hershey’s Kisses, mini Nilla Wafers and chocolate chips.
  • MAJOR ART COOLNESS: Ashar and I both had a piece accepted for a November show at The Parliament, a gallery in York, and we just dropped those off; later in November, we’ll both have a piece in a juried show at the York Art Association. Details on both of these to come!

So what’s new with your family this month? Drop me a comment! I love hearing from all my “blog friends!”

Top 5 real world math skills to know before graduation

I was a college math major who does logic puzzles for fun, and I’m homeschooling a 14-year-old daughter who, until a couple years ago, cried at the mention of the subject.

Then there’s the other side of the coin: Maybe you’ve never been confident in your own math skills, so you’re having trouble knowing what your own children know (or don’t know).

It’s easy to get hung up on phrases like pre-algebra or probability, derivatives or decimals. And it’s not that those things are unimportant. But the more important part is the bigger picture: Do you, and do your kids, understand the how and why of the use of those things in the real world?

real-world-math-skills

I can’t save the planet from mathematical mischief or leap tall buildings in a single bound (which, of course, is totally a physics equation). What I can do is share with you a few things a well-rounded person should know, mathematically speaking.

Unit price

This is the fancy way of saying “Which of these 57 packs of paper towels is the best buy?” It’s probably the most important real-world application of multiplication and division (and fractions) that I know. If you can get a 2-liter bottle of soda for $1.50 or a 1.5-liter bottle for $1, which would you choose?

This is something that is easy to get wrong. We tend to have a bias that a bigger pack is a better deal, and sometime is it – but not always.

Kitchen calculation

The recipe serves four, but you’re a family of five. What do you do? Fractions and proportions to the rescue!

This is one of the most straightforward examples of the “kitchen math” most people do. If you’ve just dirtied the half-cup measure with oil and you need another half-cup of flour, you can fill your quarter-cup measure twice. Most of us do this without even thinking, but it’s an important skill to talk about. My daughter is an incredible example of this. She had no idea as of a year ago that two fourths were the same as one half – or to be fair, if she did know that in theory, she had no idea that it translated into the process of cooking!

Inverse operations with money

These come in several forms, with two being particularly important: Making change and balancing a checkbook.

The inverse concept is often a hard one to grasp. If you’ve written all your transactions in your check register and there’s a check that has not yet cleared the bank, how do you know if you show the same balance they do? You add that amount back to your calculated balance. That’s an inverse operation, and it’s something many people struggle to grasp conceptually!

The same goes with making change. If I give you $20 for a $4.50 product, it’s so much quicker to do the inverse operation – to “count up” from the cost, not subtract from the payment amount. But it runs contrary to the way many of us think!

Cost per use

I own a $300 purse that was one of the most economically sound purchases I ever made. Why? Cost per use. If I use this purse every day for a year, my investment is less than $1 per day – about 82 cents. I’m now on my third year, which has put me at about 20 cents per use.

I used to buy $30 to $50 purses that would last me maybe three or four months before getting holes or broken straps or big stains. Even at best, my cost per use on those was no lower than 25 cents, usually almost double. Add in the cost of my time shopping for them, and suddenly, I’m better off with the “nice” one in the first place!

It might sound silly to break down every purchase like this. But teaching your children that cheap and economical are NOT always the same is an amazing start into real-world consumer finance!

Interest and debt

This is another area in which your openness with your kids will be rewarded. No matter how you feel personally about credit cards – if you’re 100% OK with them or 100% against them – make sure your children know how interest and loaned money work.

If you borrow money, it must be repaid eventually, and generally with interest. The longer you take to repay what you owe, usually the more interest you will pay on top of the original amount.

Do your children understand how the “business” of money works – and how they can either gain or lose money as part of it? Have you talked with them about what a bank does with your money – and how you can sometimes earn money by “loaning” yours to the bank temporarily?

Real world math matters!

Maybe these skills don’t seem “complex enough” for high-school math. I assure you, though, they are – and digging into them with your family, looking at how you put everything from pre-algebra to calculus in action, is going to position your children to succeed with real-world math!

More great resources for homeschooling and unschooling math

This post is also part of the iHomeschool Network’s Massive Guide to Homeschooling Math.

Click the image to read many, many more posts full of great math advice!

Also, if you’re into the things we do in our family homeschool, check out my previous “5 days of…” series, 5 days of real-world math.